Romantic relationships are the central Hollywood theme, so we decided to illustrate the steps of love development with examples from films. A good visual aid, as well as an opportunity to look at your relationship from the outside and determine at what stage your love is, may come in handy.
Falling in love
This is the very sweet “candy-bouquet” period when it seems that you are a little sick or a little crazy. Enjoy the moment and try to fix your feelings and state (later these memories will become a valuable resource for you).
Movie: 500 Days of Summer
Satiety
During this period, lovers remember that there is also life around them. She recalls bachelorette parties and her hobbies, he also does not mind a portion of freedom and gatherings with friends in a bar. There is no longer a desire for the constant presence of a partner next door.
Movie: Closer
Rejection
A time when accumulated irritation puts partners into a state of war. The members of the relationship feel cheated and think about how to end the relationship and go in search of “true” love.
Movie: American Beauty
Acceptance
Patience, and often common children lead lovers to the fourth “peaceful” stage. Now it is much easier for them to discuss pressing issues, solve problems and seek compromises. Warm feelings are reborn, deep gratitude comes to the partner for loyalty and participation.
Movie: La Boum
Service
The focus in relationships shifts from your happiness to the well-being of the partner. Altruism and mutual respect flourish in partners. It is important not only to feel but also to voice your gratitude. Reinvent romance in relationships, bring new elements to your life and relationships.
Movie: The Fountain
Intimacy
The stage of complete trust, intimacy, and sincere friendship between lovers. Often at this stage, partners look at each other in a new way. Find some time, mental and financial resources to maintain and develop your feelings.
Movie: The Piano
Love
The two people become like pieces of the same puzzle, which together fit perfectly and create a harmonious picture.
Movie: Amour
Finally, an interesting fact to think about. In the 1930s, Harvard University began a large-scale study on the influence of various factors on the quality of life. The project curator, psychiatrist George Vaillant, concluded that happiness is built on two pillars: the first is love, and the second is the ability to keep it.