“We will date for a while, fall in love, get married, have children, live a happy life and die in one day”- many people often dream about such a relationship. In reality, this rarely happens. Sometimes a relationship is doomed from the start. But this is not a reason not to dream. Trying to get closer to your ideal picture, you can learn the below criteria to find out if your relationship with a man has a future.
He avoids talking about a common future
It would be strange on the first date to choose names for future children, but if after a while your man avoids the conversation about a joint future and mumbles something uncertain in response, you can get rid of illusions: a relationship with this man doesn’t have prospects.
He doesn’t seek to introduce you to friends and family
If a man is committed to a serious relationship, he will not delay introducing you to friends and family. Pay attention to how he will behave with you in the circle of his relatives: a loving man will surround you with attention and care and will try to make you feel comfortable in an unfamiliar company.
He doesn’t care about your problems
The heartbreaking story of how you lost your phone just a week after buying it and hopelessly stained your favourite white coat, only made him annoyed? Indifference is perhaps the most important sign of lack of perspective. A man is by nature a leader, and if he does not care about your problems and worries, it means that he does not take you seriously.
He does not want to invest in you
This is not only about money and gifts, but also about the time that a man seeks to spend alone with you. If he constantly has an excuse for your next offer to meet in the form of urgent matters, overtime work, a sick grandmother, and repairs, you can be sure that your relationship has no future.
He doesn’t care where you are and with whom
You can also understand that a relationship has no future by how often he calls you. If he only contacts you on business and never calls just to hear your voice, most likely we are talking about a relationship with no future.